Conclusion; Fostering the Mawaddah Family

A.     Conclusion

1. The strategy of building a household in the perspective of Islamic education is to combine between sakinah, mawaddah and rahmah as a unity and can realize it in everyday life by performing their respective duties according to the Islamic terms. In addition, in complementary way. Husband as a head of household must be able to create a social atmosphere in the household well, which is created by love and affection, and by creating a religious atmosphere in the household.

2. The efforts to be done in fostering mawaddah households in the perspective of Islamic education are as follows:

a.  Choosing a soul mate in Islamic Education Perspective

To realize the mawaddah family, should choose a husband or wife who is of noble character and give priority to his religion. Because religion is a very important factor in the life of a household, so religion is a factor that takes precedence over other factors.

b.  Train Patience and Honesty in Mawaddah Family Construction

Patience is one of the traits that must be owned by couples to deal with any problems that arise. If patience is owned by each party, there will be no commotion in the household. Demikan also, need to be trained honesty against their respective spouses. Because with the fostering of honesty between husband and wife, it will arise the mutual trust and mutual care that will essentially create a household filled with happiness and peace within it

c.  Developing Good Communication Principles in Mawaddah Family Development

Dengan terealisasinya prinsip komunikasi yang baik dalam pembinaan keluarga mawaddah, maka akan tercipta suasana rumah tangga yang harmonis dan saling menghargai antara sesama anggota keluaraga. Karena prinsip musyawarah dan saling menghargai merupakan salah satu penunjang kebahagiaan rumah tanga dalam mencapai suatu keluarga yang mawaddah.

d.   Creating Peace and Peace in the Household

Fostering a sense of peace and tranquility in the household can be done by always maintaining and continuing to preserve the happiness that has been there by avoiding the existence of violence both physical and psychological and by making the relationship of husband and wife and other family members is a relationship. That way, it will create an atmosphere of peace and tranquility in the household.

B.        Suggestions

1.  Let the prospective husband and wife before going on a belief, so far in advance to learn things related to the construction of the household. That way, when married then it can implement it in building a sakinah family, mawaddah wa rahmah in the household according to the rules of Islam.

2.  In creating a sakinah family, mawaddah wa rahmah, husband and wife should be able to cooperate well, complement each other and appreciate. Because husband and wife responsibilities are as big and heavy as a happy home builder.

3. There  should be mutual understanding and concern between husband and wife in household happiness. Because of housework, it certainly does not escape the obstacles, the shortcomings, the mistakes, and so forth. When husbands and wives can fill each other, understand and be patient, it will be a loving family or a lost family.