Exemplary Parent

Exemplary comes from the exemplary word that means something to be imitated or good to emulate. In Arabic, keteladan is termed "uswatun hasanah" which means a way of life that is blessed by Allah SWT, as exemplified by the Prophet and has been done also by the prophet Abraham and his followers. Exemplary as uswatun hasanah is a way of educating, guiding by using a good example that is accepted by Allah SWT as reflected in the behavior of the Prophet in society and state even in various areas of his life.
In its growth, the child has a great relationship to exemplary from outsiders themselves. So good exemplary influence greatly on the child's soul, because many children imitate both parents. Children will always watch and monitor the behavior of their parents or other adults, and they will imitate it. If children find their parents to be honest, they will grow with honesty, and vice versa. The ability of the child to receive parental examples consciously or not is very high, even though children are often regarded as small beings who have not yet understood and understood, but by looking at the parental example, it will certainly give a mark on the child. Thus exemplary is something that is expected in educating children. So to harmonize between words and deeds is a necessity so that parents become figures that can be imitated by their children.
Parents have an obligation to set an example in everyday life. Like forming a strong aqidah, exemplifies honesty and wisdom in acting. So that the teachings of Islam in education is not just a pile of theories written in a pile of books, its existence is enough to be understood without being practiced. However, parents should be the first educator by providing knowledge, practice and become a figure or role model for their children.
Nashih 'Ulwan mentions various exemplary models of an educator (including parents) based on the Prophet as exemplary in all aspects of life in between; exemplary in worship, morals, generosity, zuhud, tawadhu ', forgiveness and generosity, intellectual intelligence, physical strength, persistence hold principle. This is an example of the example of Rasulullah Saw which is a picture for educators who struggle to nurture and give a big influence for the development of the personality of his students. So as the primary educator, parents should be able to make the child as a pious person by giving an example of piety. That way, the child will grow into a generation that has a strong idealism in maintaining the shari'ah of Islam during his life.
The family should be an important base to find exemplary, be the first figure for the child. For that there are tips that can be done by parents in the process of character formation and morality Islami in children to be exemplary person, namely: parents must be the main actors in doing good, istiqamah in giving exemplary, avoid element of riya and sum'ah (to be seen and heard by others), introducing exemplary figures in Islam, respecting counsel and truth even from a small child, bringing children to visit the righteous (ulama), using the method of habituation especially for toddlers and methods of dialogue on teenagers, choosing educational institutions that share the same vision and mission with their parents, and appreciate their abilities.
In short, exemplary in educating children is a very important thing done. Hopefully every parent is always aware of his role and can give what is right for the child including the right to get a good education especially through keteladan.
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